That's basically where I am.

My fiancee's family has thrown a tailgate for every home game since '81, and all her siblings will be in town, so I'm going up with her to be with family. (You're more than welcome to stop by the Orange Van in the stadium lot.) She knows my feelings and that I'm not spending money that goes to ND. She pays her dad for the tickets. She knows I'm going to be with her and her family. I even cheered a little bit at the Toledo game to get the kids involved in between snide comments about the new student media segments.