Look at the language I quoted. He said he didn't know
by SUJB9 (2017-04-21 14:32:13)
Edited on 2017-04-21 14:34:25

In reply to: I think you're holding him to an unrealistic standard.  posted by 801stlouis

what went wrong. He isn't withholding details on purpose, he doesn't know. I don't have a problem with him admitting he doesn't know, but then he shouldn't blame it on himself either then. Just say, "I don't know what went wrong. I probably need to look at the coaching job I did and see where I can improve." Simple as that.