I don't think I need elaborate. And if my kids went to either school it would have been their choice. But I'd be glad (am glad) it wasn't.
Now, once a kid is 21, the law considers said kid an adult and I most certainly do think he/she should be treated that way, whether in a dorm or out. For example, Indiana law allows 21 year olds to consume hard liquor. But it doesn't mean the liquor has to be consumed in the dorm. Go to a freaking bar!