Mr. Payment's Last Game
This was shared on Rock's House this week:
"When I was a kid, before the days of the NBC contract, Notre Dame games were on cable more often than they are now. My parents didn't get cable, so I watched all of those games at my neighbor's house, Mr. Payment. He was an Irish-Canadian immigrant and loved Notre Dame football as much as anyone I know. Some of my best memories as a kid were watching those games with Mr. Payment. He would always "send me in" to the game. If there was a big offensive play, he would ask, "can you get in there and throw a block, Joe?" I'd say I could, and if the play worked, he'd congratulate me. Now, I send my kids in the game.
When I was a teenager, Mr. Payment's son was my confirmation sponsor. I don't remember why, exactly, but Matt couldn't be there on the day of my confirmation, and Mr. Payment stood in for him. We were in the parking lot of the church listening to the ND-Tennessee game on the radio, and the confirmation mass was starting, with ND driving at the end of the game. I asked Mr. Payment what we should do, and he said, "It's Notre Dame. God'll understand." ND missed the kick to win the game, and I missed part of my confirmation. I'm glad I did.
Mr. Payment has been dying of cancer, and I went over to his place this week to watch the Michigan game with him. I asked him if he could get in there and play, and he said he'd run the defense. He did a stellar job. I held his hand during the alma mater, and he cried during it. He new it'd be his last one. He was right. Thank you, team, for winning this game. It means more to me than every other ND game I've seen put together, because it was Mr. Payment's last one. You sent him out with win."
"When I was a kid, before the days of the NBC contract, Notre Dame games were on cable more often than they are now. My parents didn't get cable, so I watched all of those games at my neighbor's house, Mr. Payment. He was an Irish-Canadian immigrant and loved Notre Dame football as much as anyone I know. Some of my best memories as a kid were watching those games with Mr. Payment. He would always "send me in" to the game. If there was a big offensive play, he would ask, "can you get in there and throw a block, Joe?" I'd say I could, and if the play worked, he'd congratulate me. Now, I send my kids in the game.
When I was a teenager, Mr. Payment's son was my confirmation sponsor. I don't remember why, exactly, but Matt couldn't be there on the day of my confirmation, and Mr. Payment stood in for him. We were in the parking lot of the church listening to the ND-Tennessee game on the radio, and the confirmation mass was starting, with ND driving at the end of the game. I asked Mr. Payment what we should do, and he said, "It's Notre Dame. God'll understand." ND missed the kick to win the game, and I missed part of my confirmation. I'm glad I did.
Mr. Payment has been dying of cancer, and I went over to his place this week to watch the Michigan game with him. I asked him if he could get in there and play, and he said he'd run the defense. He did a stellar job. I held his hand during the alma mater, and he cried during it. He new it'd be his last one. He was right. Thank you, team, for winning this game. It means more to me than every other ND game I've seen put together, because it was Mr. Payment's last one. You sent him out with win."

21 Comments:
Wow. Awesome. Thanks for sharing.
The magic of Notre Dame - pulling people together. Thank you for sharing!
must wipe away tears before co-workers notice...
My father was put in the icu on sunday afternoon and I remember thinking " At least he knows the Irish beat the wolverines saturday!" thank you that is a great post GO IRISH
Great story. May his soul rest in peace.
Guys, if you liked that story...I wrote a script about my dad and his dying wish...
to see a final game at south bend...
after twenty years of not talking...
WE all have our stories about the irish...
thanks rock...
I love you man (in a brotherly...irish bond sense...not the other way)
Thanks for sharing a very moving personal part of your life. Typical of what Notre Dame is all about.
Without question this is a great post. It is what Notre Dame is all about. Thanks for sharing it with the Notre Dame Nation.
God Bless.
GO IRISH
The spirit of Notre Dame lives forever.
Beautiful, poignant. We in metro Detroit missed the singing of the alma mater, because WDIV cut away to air a pro University of Michigan wrap-up to the game. It was filled with more "ifs" than a viewer could count - Kipling should sue.
Brings a tear to my eye, and a few goosebumps.
There really is nothing like the spirit of Notre Dame.
I can remember taking my father out to Notre Dame for his last game prior to his death from pancreatic cancer. The game was the first game in the new stadium in 1997. He was a 1950, 1951Law, Notre Dame graduate. He knew he was dying and enjoyed the trip immensely. Bittersweet as it was, it was a precious moment, I treaure to this day.
Wow. Great story. Sounds like ND-Tenn. 1991 game. ND leading 31-7 right before half. Tenn. blocks FG for a TD and go crazy in the 2nd half. I was at game. Oh those ND memories. Thanks.
This is why WE ARE ND! - ChestnutND
God Bless Mr. Payment. Our Lady I'm sure will take good care of him. I hate crying. Go Irish.
Go Bless the Irish and may Mr. Payment rest in peace.
WE ARE ND......
RIP Mr. Payment
MSU is in for rePayment.
Very heart-warming story. Let's hope Mr. Payment stay in charge of the ND defense this week, we could use his help.
..."ND missed the kick to win the game"...
...now there's a switch!...
Great post... I attended the game this weekend with my father. We flew in for another big game from Southern California. We have been fortunate enough to attend the miami nd game, the nd fsu game, the nebraska game that went into overtime yet ended in defeat and now the big win over michigan.
Although we have not always seen eye to eye over the years and lost a brother in a tragic car accident in 97 ND was one common bond we always shared in good times and in bad.
We waited in line with 10000 other nd faithful for the pep rally in the rain. At 70 years old dad never complained once and we were lucky to get in. Much to our surprise the 88 national championship team showed up along with Lou Holtz. Now that was a great team and the great game we enjoyed at usc with tony rice scoring will always remain in our memory.
However this team meant so much more because it gave us a really bright spot in 88 when we still had very heavy hearts losing my only brother. So here we are a 70 year and 38 year old man with tears running down our face from section 109 as the 88 team entered the arena. I knew right then we were going to witness another great Irish game and victory.
As Lou Holtz put is plainly in his speech at the pep rally. Notre Dame is all about playing for the lady on the dome. While football is what brings us all together it is the deeper bonds and memories that we will all cherish for years to come.
We are ND. It is not all about wins and losses but the time shared and common bonds with our fellow irish faithful. Something the other schools will never understand.
thanks
Living in So Cal cheering for the Irish.
Now he's in a great place where Notre Dame never loses. God bless.
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