of keeping himself in check on the sideline and understanding what makes certain players tick.
Holtz could lose his shit on the sideline but he was a master pyschologist and understood what made certain players tick and how to handle them. I suspect he'd handle Golson much differently than Kelly has.
Note, I am not excusing Golson for being disrespectful to Kelly. But if a kid needs a few seconds to gather himself and then will listen to what the coach will tell him, I would think a smart coach would understand that and adapt to it.