In reply to: One must maintain possession of grace through contact. posted by tdiddy07
entry at those pearly gates, Our Lord will be there and say to us, "Show me your hands. Do they have scars from giving? Show me your feet. Are they wounded from service? Show me your heart. Have you left a place for Divine Love?"
How much evidence? How many works? Who decides?
I try hard never to judge the heart (eternal fate) of another; it's way above my pay grade.
I will say that if I observed a life seemingly completely devoid of conduct consistent with a faith in (submission to) Jesus, I'd have a difficult time concluding that person had eternal life (That same super smart guy said, "If you love me, you will obey my commands.")
But even in that scenario, I'll leave it to God to sort out, kind of like the thief on the cross.
I might humbly propose that many of us and many churches (of all Christian denominations) spend far too much time trying to decide who is in and who is out.
It might be better for all concerned -- churches and individuals alike -- if we spent more time examining (and seeking to grow in) our own love for Jesus and graciously encouraging others to an ever-increasing pursuit of that love (and obedience - per John 14:15).
I have my own plank in my ocular cavity to worry about
Judge not lest you be judged and all that.
I've taken to this quote as my main driver, it's often mischaracterized to Francis, but goes like this.
"Preach the gospel at all times, and when necessary, use words"
Brow beating people on the rules and judging them isn't going to get anyone where they need to go